tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post2385561446287405985..comments2023-06-25T08:05:01.167-04:00Comments on The lustful quality of watching her erotic demise: The ExchangeDeityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06171402123131370261noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-44214329955877284702008-02-19T08:47:00.000-05:002008-02-19T08:47:00.000-05:00chastyti,thank you for your kind words. from a ver...chastyti,<BR/>thank you for your kind words. from a very early age, i recognized that an exchange must take place in order for this sort of arrangement to be fulfilling. <BR/><BR/>naughty girl,<BR/>in my experience, the dominant doesn't ask. he simply informs the submissive of his intentions/needs. <BR/><BR/>simply by not asking her if it's okay to proceed removes the question of who is in control. <BR/><BR/>doll,<BR/>i think you strike the tone that i'm referring to here. <BR/><BR/>your dominant makes a transaction, you respond, but not by giving your permission or consent. that action has long ago been understood as not being necessary.Deityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171402123131370261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-35893621525933469542008-02-17T00:34:00.000-05:002008-02-17T00:34:00.000-05:00In my relationship with Master i give both respons...In my relationship with Master i give both responses to his teasing. If it is something i have fantasized about the response will be altogether too enthusiastic. If it is new to me or i am unsure there will be silence.<BR/><BR/>I often wonder about the wisdom of enthusiasm as it is all too possible that it destroys the thrill for him. However he must have become accustomed to my honesty by now.dollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06220851788691260620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-50799379289763200582008-02-16T22:04:00.000-05:002008-02-16T22:04:00.000-05:00I'm very curious about this exchange you've talked...I'm very curious about this exchange you've talked about. Help me understand...<BR/><BR/>If the dominant partner asks the submissive to participate in the relationship and she verbally agrees then she's in control...not the dom? And just how does a submissive let a dominant know that she's submissive? <BR/><BR/>I liked a lot what you said about how she gets off on giving and you get off on taking. I just liked it!Naughty Girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13401994111306001019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-9796711111277943902008-02-16T17:28:00.000-05:002008-02-16T17:28:00.000-05:00This explanation and usual lack of comprehension, ...This explanation and usual lack of comprehension, or at least appreciation of the details is standard for the individual who has never really contemplated an erotically based exchange of power. imho the key word is exchange, not a one way leeching, but a spiral that you have aptly described.<BR/><BR/>kudos to your blog, your drive to publish, and your relationship pursuits.<BR/><BR/>xo<BR/>chastytichastyti laynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05135572840980254741noreply@blogger.com