tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post1311202653634714291..comments2023-06-25T08:05:01.167-04:00Comments on The lustful quality of watching her erotic demise: The mornin' sun is shinin' like a red rubber ballDeityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06171402123131370261noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-21083893605667112182009-02-10T12:08:00.000-05:002009-02-10T12:08:00.000-05:00I couldn't help but laugh when i read this post. M...I couldn't help but laugh when i read this post. My guy was bought a rubber bouncy ball by a friend of mine while we where on a shopping excursion (needless to say it kept him occupied for the next few hours, the childlike qualities some times never disappear, but i love them). However, i had no idea that it would also be used on me. Next thing I know, Im blindfolded, tied up, and the rubber ball is firmly in my mouth.<BR/>He finds it incredibly sexy when I start drooling all over myself. I have yet to gather why, but I am more than happy to oblige.Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17423151080219473038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-40723847223492518962007-08-05T09:05:00.000-04:002007-08-05T09:05:00.000-04:00a.g.,I wonder what led you to appreciate the eroti...a.g.,<BR/>I wonder what led you to appreciate the eroticism of the implement. What rescued it from the carnage of that PF scene?<BR/><BR/>meg,<BR/>I didn't direct them at their head, but rather (SHOCK) their bottoms. For some reason, that was okay to do. <BR/><BR/>I love thinking of your coterie of rubber-balled pals. Very cute.<BR/><BR/>roper,<BR/>Thank you for your comment. As the first dominant male to do so, i'm gratified to have your input.<BR/><BR/>amber,<BR/>i'm glad you have an affinity for these devices. Yes, must be careful to get ones that fit. The only gal i've ever seen who can regularly take a super large one is the lovely Sadie Belle.<BR/><BR/>thisgirl,<BR/>Oh i wouldn't underestimate how much joy a dominant can derive from a girl's struggle and resistance. But it's good that you want to get along with the gag.<BR/><BR/>jayne,<BR/>You hit on it just right. Wonderful liberation. Just sit tight and enjoy the silencing.<BR/><BR/>milla,<BR/>i can definitely understand how it manifests itself in petrification. Thankfully, when these relationships work, there is a symbiosis that would allow the dominant to guide you through the stages of fear or to rescue you from them.<BR/><BR/>lg,<BR/>an association to a childhood toy? I can only imagine what that does to a little girl.Deityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171402123131370261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-28642609885073261972007-08-04T23:44:00.000-04:002007-08-04T23:44:00.000-04:00It is definitely interesting, there are other thin...It is definitely interesting, there are other things that I find easy(ier) than other seem to, for example some humiliation, some pain, etc. I can see how my fear is simply in my mind a lot of the time, I think it's a bit psychologically driven because of simple fear of constrained spaces etc (which I never actually knew I had). It's obviously also trust, if you/me/others trust our Dom/submissives enough to enjoy all these behaviours, then it means trust should be (must be) very strong, which naturally leads to a strong bond.<BR/><BR/>millamillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14935774918083607756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-23239589032807561802007-08-04T03:24:00.000-04:002007-08-04T03:24:00.000-04:00Milla, isn't it strange that you find these experi...Milla, isn't it strange that you find these experiences threatening whilst i find them so liberating, we are all so different in our responses. It must be this difference between us that leads to such strong bonding between sub and dom when the coupling works.dollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06220851788691260620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-25914288808395221432007-08-04T02:26:00.000-04:002007-08-04T02:26:00.000-04:00while this isn't something i've experienced, your ...while this isn't something i've experienced, your description made the idea quite vivid. i could imagine the taste and texture of the ball so easily - probably because you tied it to such a common childhood toy.<BR/><BR/>i agree with persephone that your writing is particularly lovely here. thank you!littlegirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02391394389152411325noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-54765950086240604542007-08-03T22:30:00.000-04:002007-08-03T22:30:00.000-04:00I was surprised at how much it frightened me the f...I was surprised at how much it frightened me the first time. Along with a blindfold, I quickly became panicked the first time and was begging for them to come off. I was surprised, because I didn't think it would be such a physical or psychological reaction. I'm still scared of situations where I have no option but to be restrained, gagged or blindfolded. Aren't we a funny lot, that we subject ourselves to being petrified. Sometimes I wonder.<BR/><BR/>millamillahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14935774918083607756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-17929239536343192652007-08-03T21:34:00.000-04:002007-08-03T21:34:00.000-04:00There is a wonderful liberation in being gagged. J...There is a wonderful liberation in being gagged. Just as blindfolding releases the brain from concentration on the visual, gagging releases the brain from the need to communicate verbally. It gives freedom to be completely self-contained and concentrate only on your own feelings and experiences.dollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06220851788691260620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-11329000375072619872007-08-03T17:16:00.000-04:002007-08-03T17:16:00.000-04:00Good post :) When i first started playing with my ...Good post :) <BR/><BR/>When i first started playing with my Dom i would fight restraints quite a lot, but i've got better at being more accepting of it and the play seems to be better for that, i think if he doesnt have the fight it doesnt distract him from where his imagination is taking him. I still dont like gags too much mind you i prefer to scream lol ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-17154724597378928202007-08-03T09:46:00.000-04:002007-08-03T09:46:00.000-04:00But it's true that the scenes involving gagging ar...But it's true that the scenes involving gagging are very difficult. Besides, J says "there's nothing attractive about a ball gag". He does, however, like to gag me because I am sassy and bossy and gagging takes that away. I find though that gagging works best with the scenes that already happened before - like caning which happens all the time - it's perfect for full-force deep-welting caning because instead of screaming very loudly I bite into the gag and internalize the excruciating pain instead. But with some more complex bondage, like immobilizing with a spreader bar,which J liked a lot, gag is difficult, because I feel like we need to communicate.Lenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04664092826174403823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-78540358849880492232007-08-03T09:42:00.000-04:002007-08-03T09:42:00.000-04:00Oh, ball gags. So nice you dedicated a post to it....Oh, ball gags. So nice you dedicated a post to it. The moment I saw a red ball gag in the mouth of a model over at extreme restraints. I wanted one. J said no. Because, you see, he said one thing is to have a stick in the house (cane), another thing to have something like this. I got one anyway, and it turned out way too big, so he made me wear despite it giving me a headache. It was pink, I guess, and not very nice, so he ended up using it eventually to plug a hole in order to fix the diesel rototiller. How naughty is that. By then I got a different gag which fit just right, and since I wanted a smaller one, I couldn't find one that would be read, so went with black. But I too which it was a red ball. Red goes so nicely with very dark hair and dark eyes, I think.Lenahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04664092826174403823noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-88744691969332622202007-08-03T03:38:00.000-04:002007-08-03T03:38:00.000-04:00An excellent description of one of the most effect...An excellent description of one of the most effective tools in the Dom's armory.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-5261576107577795252007-08-02T22:50:00.000-04:002007-08-02T22:50:00.000-04:00i felt like your writing style was shining in this...i felt like your writing style was shining in this entry. it reminded me of your earliest posts, and i was smiling as i read.<BR/><BR/>i so hate that ball gag. in the future maybe if i try to remember the fun that *i* had playing with the bouncy balls (although i never directed them at anyone's heads... i gave them names and personalities and took them on outings) i will tolerate it with more submissive peace.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-77893606136387656442007-08-02T22:21:00.000-04:002007-08-02T22:21:00.000-04:00How interesting. I, too, had an epiphany with the ...How interesting. I, too, had an epiphany with the 'gimp' scene in <I>Pulp Fiction</I>, but it inspired many years of irrational fear of it, unlike your experience. I was in college at the time and watched the movie alone one day, having cut my classes in order to see it. By far the <I>strongest</I> image I left that film with was my fear of that gag and its symbolism, as derived from that scene. It disturbed me so much.<BR/><BR/>My first forays into SM were in those same years. No one ever approached me with such a ball gag, so the issue never came to a head for me. It's only been in recent years that I've come to appreciate the eroticism of the implement (although only in imagery, as I've never experienced one myself). But I still choose to studiously avoid thinking about that Pulp Fiction scene. :-)<BR/><BR/>Strangely, I never had such a negative response to scenes like the Lois Lane one you described. I'm not sure where the difference lies.<BR/><BR/>my best,<BR/>a.g.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com