tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post1119409823162492928..comments2023-06-25T08:05:01.167-04:00Comments on The lustful quality of watching her erotic demise: Wherein Deity gets stalked, Part IDeityhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06171402123131370261noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-29722301165796190262009-09-22T11:53:51.720-04:002009-09-22T11:53:51.720-04:00o.g.,
are submissives the only antenna for this fr...o.g.,<br />are submissives the only antenna for this frequency?<br /><br />Jz,<br />It does seem that there is a large assortment of men out there who want to be bottoms. More so than tops?<br /><br />cutesypah,<br />There's a reason i've waited until now to re-tell this story. It wasn't - well, i won't ruin it. Just a tough one to endure.<br /><br />I'm not sure if i'm self-assured or just don't care all that much about rejection.<br /><br />victory regained,<br />"truly dominant" - what does that mean? what makes that word stand on its own?<br /><br />milla,<br />wouldn't think that dear ole Deity could get stalked, wouldja?<br /><br />CD,<br />I haven't done much online dating, so i hope my experience with Pamela isn't indicative of the typical experience.<br /><br />cindi,<br />to see my desires reflected back to me as fully-owned aspects of a girl is truthfully the clearest sense of the erotic for me.<br /><br />MizP,<br />This is where i agree, merely arrogance can't mean dominant tendencies. I for one believe intense arrogance is merely a mask for intense insecurity.Deityhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06171402123131370261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-15665181093600165782009-09-21T20:40:41.423-04:002009-09-21T20:40:41.423-04:00I recently had a discussion with a dominating male...I recently had a discussion with a dominating male who thought he was a Dom. I had a difficult time getting him to understand that his arrogance and demands were not only ridiculous but highly unattractive. I also agree with OG that a truly dominant male does not have a need to try so hard to be domineering, he just is. It is this male that will get a positive response. <br /><br />Looking forward to Part II. <br /><br />Pamela (not from your story)MizPnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-55179279158001817302009-09-20T05:51:11.784-04:002009-09-20T05:51:11.784-04:00I suspect, Mr. Deity, that you are a very kind but...I suspect, Mr. Deity, that you are a very kind but very persistent sort of man. You go about convincing the girl that it is all right for her to have for herself what it is she wants. Perhaps, this gives you much pleasure. This kind of 'dominance' is, I think, the most effective kind. Why, I even think you could convince her that it is in her interests to get the cane.<br /><br />Such a clever form of 'dominance' me thinks.<br /><br />cindiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-37419806156557258782009-09-18T14:26:19.587-04:002009-09-18T14:26:19.587-04:00Deity, you have described the challenges of on-lin...Deity, you have described the challenges of on-line dating perfectly. Moreover, you have pointed out the challenge of navigating waters filled with under-prepared persons seeking partners. Both male and female. <br /><br />Since all encounters, good and bad begin with hello, I am waiting on pins and needles to see how this resulted in your being stalked. CDAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-32943408959557481502009-09-18T05:24:07.279-04:002009-09-18T05:24:07.279-04:00Um this sounds like an awesome story. Awesome in t...Um this sounds like an awesome story. Awesome in the sense of totally shithouse at the time, but awesome in the retelling.<br /><br />I too look forward to Part 2.<br /><br />xx millamillahttp://millagirl.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-86645437472123549322009-09-18T04:58:02.480-04:002009-09-18T04:58:02.480-04:00I agree with OG. Men that are truly dominant know...I agree with OG. Men that are truly dominant know it, and thus have no reason push the subject. We just need to be ourselves and our character will show itself.Victory Regainedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07030956819181675359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-64286669159098982222009-09-17T23:10:32.598-04:002009-09-17T23:10:32.598-04:00Deity, I can't imagine a situation where you a...Deity, I can't imagine a situation where you aren't completely in control. <br /><br />I have yet to meet a man in person who matched his online persona. I'm just glad Mr Right hung out at the coffee shop.<br /><br />Oh, but for me, being dominated by a man means getting that feeling that he really COULD get the better of me. Mr Right can be so cocky, but in the most disarmingly, charming, and sexy way. He's just so SURE of himself that it makes me swoon! that's what being dominated by a man means to me - that if I let him, or rather, don't watch closely, he would lead me right into the den of iniquity before I knew what hit me. (pun intended)cutesypahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07954055832006760974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-46792103859211209002009-09-17T21:37:45.576-04:002009-09-17T21:37:45.576-04:00"i didn't completely understand what thes..."i didn't completely understand what these girls meant by "being dominated by a man"<br /><br />As someone who frequently hears, "there's something about you..." only to have it turn out the guy thinks that the whiff of kink he senses means that I would want to play domme... maybe those women just want to be sure the guy gets the right end of the stick!<br /><br />just a thought... :-)<br /><br />Looking forward to Part 2!Jzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301793291285112859noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8804250895155919596.post-2098061848747202152009-09-17T19:34:02.002-04:002009-09-17T19:34:02.002-04:00"But, i didn't completely understand what..."But, i didn't completely understand what these girls meant by "being dominated by a man" and still don't understand what this means when i encounter this in the naughty blogosphere. I consider myself a dominant male, but i've never seen my behavior as dominating."<br /><br />Ah... this reminds me of the approaches I still occasionally get on FetLife, and of most of the replies I'd get to my few desperate ads on craigslist during sad, empty days. These men who say this or that to try to persuade me that they were what I wanted when in fact they were missing that indescribable something that reveals itself in just a few words and lures me as sure as the smell of a fresh-baked pie.<br /><br />A truly dominant male - at least from my perspective - will radiate that guiding control without the need for any threatening words or chest-beating self-promotion. You can feel it...oatmeal girlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12842608615972752000noreply@blogger.com