I invite you to watch this scene. Go ahead. I can wait.
exquisite, isn't it? I even have it playing in the background as I
write this. The noises of her struggling to breathe in the beginning are
quite rich and appetizing. And just as her domme (Mz. Berlin)
squeezes the bulb to the gag in her mouth one last time, the little
slurp from the rubber toy is delectable. Mz. Berlin eventually produces a
cattle prod and the scene unfolds to a nice tormenting crescendo.
a very reliable and typical production from DeviceBondage.com. I find it
very arousing to watch, but after a few views, I begin to recognize it
for the theatrical piece that it is. Breaking it down, my mind migrates
to the ways in which one could recreate it in the comfort of their own
home, and very quickly, the magic of the scenario dissolves, and the
spectacle becomes quite pedestrian.
encounter disembodied performances like this, we tend not to ponder all
of the labor and effort that goes into it. First of
all, there is the well-coordinated latex gear. These rubbery items are
not cheap, and one thing about transparent latex is that without proper
care, it can easily become discolored and unseemly. My girl and I have
played scenes with similar get-ups, and dressing her up like this takes a
great deal of time and concentration. It can take twenty to thirty
minutes to pull everything on and make sure all the necessary holes
align with her nostrils so that she can breathe properly. For something
that lasts only a handful of minutes (as this video does), it sometimes
feels like the preparatory effort isn't worth it.
when you look at the rigging, that hardware consists of some major
amounts of metal fabrication. Most people could never begin to mimic the
craftsmanship on display here - and this metallic artistry isn't even
the thing that gets our attention. We don't even think about the
professional lighting, or the set designs, and our minds never turn to
the dozens of professionals behind the camera, ensuring this scene flows
For those of us who aspire to perform their
own similar bondage minuet, we are hopelessly outmatched by all of this
choreography. When we try to pull something like this off, it can often
fall apart clumsily, killing the erotic atmosphere we'd hope to
command. There have been many times where something I planned didn't
work in execution, and the humiliation both my girl and I've felt as we
detangle all of the gear from her person takes some time to live down.
think it's important to remember that when we watch professionals
perform these fantasy moments, these are actors who are
getting paid (most of them, anyway) to produce an illusion that to them
isn't the intimate connection we hope to explore with our partners. I
know I can catch myself losing site of this notion as I watch Mz. Berlin
effortlessly bring her rubber toy to yet another forced orgasm.
Allowing myself to accept that I'm not always 100% certain or correct
permits me to thrive on the mistakes that to me, make the moments with
my girl all the more real.